1/ cheers and relax—make some tea, cocktails, wine, or a big glass of water to drink together and wind down.

2/ have a little connection time to get the ball rolling—

• what was your favourite moment the last week?

3/ start dreaming about your day together!

• what would be our ideal day if we had no constraints?

• what is most important for us to experience on our wedding day?

• what are our favourite things to do together? how can we incorporate them into our day?

4/ time for a mood board!

• start a playlist that makes you feel your feelings and makes you both think of each other.

• try to start OFF Pinterest—dig into your imagination and write or draw what you both envision.

• once you have dug into your imagination, it’s time to get on Pinterest to pin some visuals. pin a mix of photos, quotes, colours, textures, photos, and helpful blog posts—your mood board doesn’t have to just be wedding related either!

5/ start to pare down to what is most important:

• what are our top three priorities, both in energy and budget-wise?

• what don’t we want to do or feel on our wedding day?

• given our constraints, what does the best day we could possibly have together look like?

6/ palette cleanser: get out of planning mode and just have some fun together

• watch a dance tutorial on youtube

• cook a yummy dinner together

tip: remember: your wedding is unlike any other. this is why we start just in your imagination—don’t get lost in the pinterest haze :)